8 Stunning Oklahoma Wedding Venues for Modern, Design-Led Celebrations
Oklahoma, We See You.
Oklahoma’s wedding scene? Criminally underrated.
We’re talking Italian-style gardens in the middle of Tulsa, modern ranches made for full-weekend takeovers, and historic hotels that look straight out of a Gatsby daydream. One of our planners have officially relocated to Tulsa, (hi, Ashley 👋), so we’ve been scouting the area — and let’s just say, there’s plenty to work with.
Here’s our short list of Oklahoma wedding venues we’re currently obsessed with — and a few ideas for how to know which one feels like you!
Southern Hills Country Club (Tulsa)
Old money energy with room for reinvention.
Southern Hills is the spot for high-end Tulsa weddings — but yes, that 1950s country club aesthetic can feel like your grandpa’s golf clubhouse if left untouched. We love using lighting, draping, and layered textures to modernize the space. Think: Gossip Girl reboot meets Architectural Digest. Add an updated color palette (warm neutrals, sculptural florals, and metallic accents) and it’s instantly refreshed.
Pro tip: Bring in soft uplighting and a statement dance floor — it’s the easiest way to shift the vibe from “tennis brunch” to “editorial-level event.”
Philbrook Museum (Tulsa)
Italy. But make it Oklahoma.
The Philbrook Museum’s gardens and architecture are straight out of a destination wedding fantasy. It’s one of the most versatile venues in the state — we’ve seen everything from intimate dinners on the terrace to full-scale luxury weddings that feel like Lake Como got lost and ended up in Tulsa.
We love leaning into the space’s history while keeping it modern — layering in soft draping, sculptural florals, and a color story that complements the museum’s rich tones.
Pro tip: Plan your ceremony near golden hour — the light here is unreal.
Wynchester Gardens (Mounds)
She’s new, she’s shiny, and we’re watching her.
Opening in 2026, Wynchester Gardens already has our attention. With its sprawling countryside setting and modern aesthetic, we’re expecting it to be the perfect blend of rustic romance and elevated design. It’s giving “farm, but make it fashion.”
Once it opens, this will be one to keep your eye on for full-weekend celebrations with creative layouts and immersive design potential.
The Mayo Hotel (Tulsa)
Historic glam with a wild streak.
Once the crown jewel of Tulsa’s wedding scene post-renovation (hello, 2008), The Mayo remains one of the city’s most iconic venues. Sure, it hosts a wide range of weddings now — but when done right, it’s an absolute showstopper.
We love The Mayo for couples who appreciate architecture, texture, and old-school glamour — but want to make it feel personal. Add custom lighting, a layered tablescape, and something unexpected (think: bold color or moody floral palette), and suddenly this space feels cinematic.
The Bower (Edmond)
If you’re over the barn scene (we get it), The Bower is your breath of fresh air.
This relatively new venue feels airy, intentional, and quietly modern — a perfect fit for couples who lean editorial rather than rustic. Its clean lines and natural light make it an ideal blank canvas for design-forward celebrations.
We haven’t worked here yet, but we’re keeping our eye on it — the potential is huge.
Aspen Ranch (Edmond)
Big property, big possibilities.
Aspen Ranch is a planner’s playground. With on-site lodging, a pool, and wide-open spaces, it’s perfect for multi-day events that flow from welcome party to farewell brunch. The aesthetic is neutral and flexible — think “blank slate,” but with better architecture and a sense of ease.
We love layering the weekend with intentional design moments: think poolside margs, a golden-hour ceremony, and a candlelit dinner under the stars.
Oklahoma City Golf & Country Club (Nichols Hills)
Old money, meet your glow-up.
Much like Southern Hills, OKC Golf & Country Club is where you’ll find most of the luxury weddings in the area — and while the bones are beautiful, the interiors could use a little zhuzh. Strategic lighting, updated draping, and lush florals make all the difference.
With the right design direction, it transforms from “traditional” to “elevated old-world charm.” We’re talking Bridgerton energy with a modern color story.
Dream Point Ranch (Bixby)
A modern barn with heart.
Dream Point Ranch has sweeping views and a kind team behind it — and while it’s often used for budget-friendly weddings, we think it’s an undervalued gem. Done right, the space has so much potential for elevated design.
Swap burlap for velvet, string lights for chandeliers, and lean into rich textures to make it shine.
Spain Ranch (Jenks)
Minimal, modern, and oh-so-pretty.
Spain Ranch’s signature black-and-white barns are Instagram-famous for a reason. It’s intimate, clean-lined, and ideal for smaller weddings that still want big impact. We love seeing couples go bold here — bright colors, strong florals, and statement art pieces thrive in this minimalist space.
Pro tip: Don’t be afraid to add color — the contrast is where the magic happens.
Planning an Oklahoma Wedding? Let’s Make It Yours.
As planners and designers, we’re all about taking a space — whether it’s a historic hotel or a countryside ranch — and reimagining it into something that tells your story.
If you’re planning a wedding in Oklahoma (or anywhere, honestly), we’d love to help you turn your ideas into an experience your guests will still be talking about years later.
✦ Meet Epoch Co+ ✦
We’re Epoch Co+ — wedding planners, designers, and professional chaos guides.
Heather (right) is the lab brain turned creative director (she brings that precision-meets-passion energy). Ashley (left) is the logistics genius with a hospitality heart (she’s the one who makes your event flow like a five-star dinner party). Together, we plan weddings that don’t just look beautiful — they feel like you.
We’re obsessed with experiences that stick — the dinner where your uncle met your best friend, the pool party that became family legend, the design moment everyone’s still talking about.
If that sounds like your kind of celebration, let’s make it happen.
